A roundup of 10 Sexy Valentine’s Day ideas perfect for date night! Turn up the romance and get ready for V-day with these sexy Valentine’s Date Ideas that just may make you blush!

*Post updated in 2025 with modern dates for the ultimate romantic Valentine’s Day celebration!

Let’s just start out this post by fully admitting my cheeks are flush and my face is red after just typing the title. We are often asked for specific date night ideas by readers. And sexy date ideas are something every couple can use! But even as a date night expert who shares tried and tested date ideas, whenever someone asks for a sexy date idea I’m like an embarrassed 12-year-old who was publicly asked who she has a crush on.

The intimacy piece of marriage is such a big deal. Additionally. with National Marriage Week and Valentine’s Day this week, I’m sharing several date ideas by category to help readers have a memorable and wonderful day of love. Due to this week it seemed like time to swallow some awkwardness and talk about a few sexy date ideas.

I’m going to try to keep this classy friends! Let me just share a few fun high-level concepts as inspiration. And then it’s up to you to make sure there’s a whole lot of romance in your dating life during this week of love. 

Sexy Valentine’s Day Date Ideas

1. Play Sexy Games

Plain and simple, grab a sexy game for two. And set yourself for some guided fun and foreplay. It doubles as a sexy Valentine’s day gift, and fun way to take things up a notch.

If you’re looking for a lower budget option, start with a product that is meant to enhance touch in all forms, and some games to help spice things up at home. They’ve created easy downloadable printables that take only the push of a button and your bottle of K-Y Touch to be set with some games ranging from really cute and sweet to really steamy. This TOUCH game was my personal favorite- cute and the right amount of sexy.

2. Adventure Challenge: In Bed

We’ve raved about how much we love the Adventure Challenge for Couples and their fun date ideas! They make a great product that keeps date night fun and unexpected. And guess what, they knew many couples needed something similar to spice up their love life and even their sex life. So they created an Adventure Challenge: In Bed. 

It’s a book with scratch-off adventures for a little fun and surprise in what you’re going to do. They claim it’s meant to bring fun to the bedroom, and it’s certified sex therapist approved. It’s a great gift, and a fun product to have for a sexy Valentine’s Day celebration. 

3. Spin the Bottle

Another fun twist on a classic- grab the K-Y TOUCH bottle and play Spin the Bottle! This will create a great ice-breaker and once again, this printable is already created without any pressure to scrapbook (although if that’s your thing, by all means, scrapbook it)!

4. Love is Art Kit

Heat things up with a Love is Art kit. It’s a painting kit you’ll create while you…well you may just want to check it out to get the details. But the couple I know who recommended it highly recommended it!

5. Sensual Scavenger Hunt 

Set up a sexy scavenger hunt around with clues leading to romantic tasks/ maybe some sensual pleasures. Each clue could lead to a sexy outfit or fun lingerie, a romantic surprise, or a task to complete together. It’s a fun way to add a little adventure and turn the evening into sexy Valentine’s Day celebration you discover together. 

6. Make Out in the Car to Your Favorite High School Mixed Tape

Somewhere we grow up and decide the car isn’t functional, we’re not teenagers, and there’s more fun to be had than making out. However, taking a trip down memory lane together and setting the mood with some of your favorite high school slow songs can be just what you need to spice things up and better understand just what Katy Perry was singing about.
And sometimes tapping into your teenage dreams brings a feeling of passion and arousal in a simple role play sure to help bring on the sexual tension and a fun Valentine’s Day celebration. 

Sexy Date Ideas

7. Lingerie Shopping

I’m just going to say it, cut the self-consciousness and let loose- this means both parties! Have fun picking something out for one another and then come home and model it with a private fashion show. The memory and experience are so worth forgetting the insecurities and dropping a little money on some items you’ll hopefully get lots of use out of. 

If you’d like to do this remotely, I can’t recommend Mentionables enough. They make the most beautiful pieces that are body-positive for all body shapes and sizes. Mentionables Lingerie also does model-free product photos, so you can shop in a PG (maybe PG-13) setting and feel more comfortable. Quality, variety, and a company committed to sexy pieces for all bodies make it such a win!

8. Couples Massage

Physical touch is a love language for a reason! It’s easy to look up a few techniques online. Set up some massage candles, your own spa setup, and get ready for some romance and relaxation. Combine with the perfect massage creme later, and you’ll get a romantic sensation with a very sexy, very romantic date night in!

9. Long, Luxurious Bubble Bath 

Have you tried this? It’s sweet, it’s relaxing, it’s romantic, and even in a small tub, it’s sexy! There’s something intimate and vulnerable about a romantic bath time together, and this Valentine’s Day is the perfect day to plan some quality tub time together.

Okay, only two shades of red here. Hopefully, all those who have asked for some sexy date ideas can now have a few fun ideas for this Valentine’s Day. Meanwhile, I am still feeling 12 and worried the cool kids are going to tell my crush what I’ve confessed.

10. Give a Sexy Gift Box  

Create your own Valentine’s Day celebration with some sexy Valentines gifts. And if you can make this a surprise for them to unwrap, I dare you to do it to up the spark! Include things like: 

• Candles (with a flame) / flameless candles 
• sexy lingerie 
• Massage Oil 
• Sex toys you know you’re both comfortable with 
• A vibrator 
• A position book or prompts 
• Champagne or Sparkling Cider 
• Chocolates 
• Fun Games to try 
  
  

You could easily pair this with the keys to a hotel room and a night way Valentine’s Day celebration you know will be full of intimate moments together. 

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