It’s time for New Year’s Resolutions, and to strengthen your relationship it’s a great idea to set some together! Here are 12 Must-Do New Year’s Resolutions for Couples!
It’s the week of setting goals for the new year, and it’s time to include your relationship with New Year’s resolutions for couples! No matter how great your relationship is, you can always improve and find deeper love and connection together.
New Year’s Resolutions for Couples
I’m a firm believer that the close bond you feel as a couple comes from a few connections you share: emotional, intellectual, physical, and spiritual connections. So let’s break down a few easy, fun, and important goals that make perfect New Year’s resolutions for couples.
Make a weekly date night goal.
We started Friday We’re in Love as a goal to go on a date every week. I know making a formal goal has made all the difference in making date night happen for us!
I’d challenge you to set a goal to date every week. But if that’s not possible, shoot for at least once a month. Twice a month or more is ideal. So many couples aim for a date night out and a stay-at-home date night in. You do what works for you! Here’s our date night system that’s enabled date nights since we become parents.
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Brush up on each other’s love languages.
Even if you’ve taken the 5 Love Languages assessment before, it’s a good idea to retake and brush up on them every year. People change and evolve, and sometimes their love languages do too! We have a 5 Love Languages Date Night with a free worksheet perfect to follow for a date night in!
Plan to have a marriage meeting every month.
These don’t have to be intimidating or even very formal. But plan a time to talk about what’s going well and any concerns anyone may have. Be sure to share wins and couch any issues with plenty of solutions and positive feedback too.
This is one of those New Year’s Resolutions for Couples that can make all the difference in feeling more connected this year!
Plan a Big Dream Together
If you love traveling, start planning that dream trip and how you’ll make it happen. That may mean it’s a few years out, but start working towards that dream now and come up with ways to achieve it.
Maybe it’s a remodel, a big move, a career change, sending one of you back to school…the sky truly is the limit with your dreams!
But it’s a great emotional connector to share these dreams and start working towards a path to make them a reality. It’s also a really fun New Year’s Resolutions for couples way to approach goals!
Make a Goal to Give Words of Affirmation Daily
One tiny compliment a day can make a world of difference in your relationship. Make it a goal to be specific and end each day with a compliment or specific thing you love about your partner.
Set financial goals together.
Make sure you are both on the same page. Set a financial goal, either big or small, and make a plan to work together towards it.
Here are a few financial goals:
– Save for retirement
– Save for a downpayment
– Pay down a mortgage
– Find a new way to save money
– Come up with a budgeting system and stick to it
– Find new ways to invest
Resolve to Fight Fair
Couples who really grow together and strengthen relationships aren’t strong because they never fight or argue, it’s because they do. But there’s a difference between disagreements and dealing with conflict and fighting.
Choose to make this a year without name-calling, one where you each accept responsibility, and you approach conflict when you’re level-headed and able to talk and listen.
And if this is a persistent issue, I’d resolve to make a therapy/counseling session to help you get a few tools in your toolbelt to approach this common problem better.
Try Something New Together Every Month
We’re firm believers in doing new date night activities just for the science behind it. New experiences trigger adrenaline and dopamine in your brain, which are the same chemicals that help one feel in love.
Give yourself the gift of feeling more love, and learning and growing together. Plan some new restaurants, activities, couples to meet and double with, or classes to take together.
Make a 10-Year-Plan
If you don’t have a 5-year-plan, 10-year-plan, etc, this is a great time to make one! Come up with where you’re like to be in your life and career. And go ahead and backtrack how you’ll get there.
We often come up with new savings plans. Almost always, there’s a work goal of certification or new skill to learn we realize one of us may need.
I love feeling like we’re heading in the same direction and finding ways to better support one another. These plans help us stay in check all year to achieve the big picture items.
Resolve to change one habit to touch more.
Maybe every time you watch something together, you make a rule to cuddle to hold hands. Perhaps whenever you say a word you agree to kiss.
Make an intentional plan for more physical touch!
Make intimacy resolutions.
Could you benefit from the scheduled time? Is it time to see a sex therapist? Maybe you just need a goal or actual plan to make it happen more or make it better for one or both partners.
Plan a regular spiritual practice to experience together.
Do you want to have meditation time? Are you looking to attend a church regularly? Maybe you want to read scriptures together as a couple?
This is going to look different for every couple. But spiritual intimacy is important and planning a way to connect spiritually is always a great New Year’s Resolutions for Couples to look into.
Be sure to grab our free goal-setting worksheet to help you write down and plan out your New Year’s Resolutions for couples.
And may this year be a year your relationship grows stronger you grow closer together!
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